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Ø This is a continuation of our talk show . Pastor Paul and the Christ Love Family invite you to participate in this "TALKING FROM THE HEART TO THE HEART".
5. Do I need to tell my husband everything I do? If I don’t am I lying?
Ø Do you want your husband to tell you everything he does? Then tell him everything if you want him to tell you everything. Mat 7:2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
Ø If you do not want to tell him when he asks just simply manipulate him from the subject or tell him I am not comfortable telling you but he might get angry or even retaliates.
Husband and wife should open up to each other and discuss freely. Mostly on family issues the two should contribute equally and get them solved amicably. No one is more important than the other.
6. If my husband commits adultery can I leave him? And can I get married again?
7. What does the bible say about a married woman who leaves her husband who abuses her? Does she commit adultery if she marries again?
Ø Deu 24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
Ø Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Ø 1Cort. 7:10-17
In the issue of marriage we have to be careful. It involves two persons. Though the Bible says few things about marriage both in the old and in the new testament but the conclusive intention of God who established it is for peace to reign in the family, in the society and in each person's life. Marriage has many colours, it changes with time and with occurrence. The way it works for others it might not work like that for you. You need the Holy Spirit of God to guide you. Take it to the Holy Spirit of GOD to direct you to either leave an abusive relationship or stay. Let Him direct you to either to remarry or stay single. Jesus Christ said that the Holy Spirit of God will teach us, guide us, reveal things to us and comfort us. Most of the things which the Holy Spirit of God is coming to do in your life you might not find them in the bible. It is a relationship between you and the Holy Spirit. It is a communication between you and the Holy Spirit. Fast and pray. The Holy Spirit will help you out of a wrong relationship.
Satan can bring two persons into a wrong marriage. There are many marriages today that are suffering because they were ordained by Satan. Anytime Satan wants to cause a problem in one's life he would bring the wrong person into that person's life. We heard true stories of demonic persons coming into ministers' lives just to destroy their ministries.
This I speak not from the scripture if you are not at peace in your marriage as God intended then work out. Work out if you have tried all you could and it does not work. Work out if it is abusive and deadly. Work out if it is disconnecting you from God. Let it end peacefully if your spouse does not want it to continue. Never you tie your destiny down because of someone. The scripture says "Let he who lacks wisdom ask"
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Pastor Paul
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